About the photo. There is always "that guy". This is a California Quail - they're ground birds, like chickens. But there's always "that guy" that has to be different. "That guy" is identifying as a house finch (bird feeder bird). We love "that guy" doing his thing, his way. This is the "My Way" blog - I started it when I got my dx for diabetes, but there has always been a fashion/color thing going on. You'll still read about the medical piece, but far more about the color and fashion part of my life.

Sunday, April 26, 2026

Current Eye Shadows that I own

 ChatGPT says that all are within the warm-bright-medium palette.

 

 

Current eye shadow shades:

NYX volatile

Pig 01

 

Urban Decay colors

Freelove

Roach

Blunt

Psych

Fazed

MAC

Princess cut

Amber lights

Woodwinked

Vintage selection

Tilt

Bougie

Last dance

Bare study

Joie de glizt

Celebutante

Expensive pink

Ethereal

All that glittersbrue

My tweedy

 

 

R.E.M.

Totes

 

ColourPop

Roy g., biv


 

 

 

 

 

 

Saturday, January 31, 2026

ChatGPT Kibbe

 

Overall Essence Impression

You read as Soft Natural with Classic influence.

Here’s why:

🌿 Soft Natural (primary)

  • Your overall lines look slightly broad and relaxed, not sharp or angular

  • You have a friendly, approachable presence rather than dramatic intensity

  • The jacket works well because it’s structured but not stiff, with texture instead of crisp tailoring

  • The outfit feels best when it’s comfortable, layered, and natural, not overly fitted

⚖️ Classic (secondary influence)

  • Your features appear balanced and symmetrical

  • You look polished when things are neat, proportional, and moderate

  • The outfit succeeds because it’s not messy or oversized—there’s an orderly, composed feel

What This Means for Style

You shine when your clothes are:

  • Relaxed but intentional

  • Slightly structured with soft edges

  • Textured fabrics (tweed, knits, soft denim)

  • Clean silhouettes without sharp tailoring or excess frill

Great pieces for you:

  • Softly tailored jackets (like the one you’re wearing)

  • Straight or gently relaxed jeans

  • Layered jewelry with an organic feel

  • Matte fabrics over shiny or clingy ones

What to avoid:

  • Very sharp, severe tailoring (too Dramatic)

  • Overly delicate, frilly details (too Romantic)

  • Extremely oversized, unshaped garments (can overwhelm your balance)

Essence Keywords

Approachable · Grounded · Polished · Natural elegance

Even More ChatGPT

 

Your strongest Kitchener essences

🌿 Natural (dominant)
This really stands out first.

  • Relaxed, approachable presence

  • Soft, slightly broad lines rather than sharp or tiny

  • You look most “at home” in casual-polished pieces (like this jacket + jeans combo)

  • Textured fabrics, layering, and ease really suit you

🌸 Classic (secondary)
There’s a calm balance to you.

  • Proportions look harmonious and grounded

  • Nothing feels extreme or overstated

  • Clean structure (the jacket shape, straight-leg jeans) works beautifully

Possible touch of:

🌼 Romantic (subtle accent)
Not dominant, but present.

  • Softness in the face and smile

  • Warmth and gentleness rather than severity

  • Jewelry with curves and warmth (which you’re already doing!) looks very natural on you


What I don’t see strongly

  • Dramatic: not sharp, elongated, or intense

  • Gamine: not compact, high-contrast, or playful-edgy

  • Ingenue: not delicate or youthful in a petite way


Your likely blend (in order)

Natural → Classic → Romantic

That means you shine in:

  • Relaxed silhouettes with light structure

  • Natural textures (tweed, denim, knits)

  • Soft layering

  • Jewelry that’s warm, organic, and a bit substantial (your necklaces are spot on 👌)

If you want, I can:

  • Suggest outfits that hit all three essences

  • Help you refine this with face-only vs body-movement cues

  • Or compare this to Kibbe IDs if you’re exploring both systems

Just tell me where you want to go next 💫

More ChatGPT

 


what kitchner essence am i

Based on this photo, your Kitchener essence appears to be a blend, with one essence clearly leading.

🌿 Primary Essence: Natural

  • Relaxed, approachable presence

  • Soft, slightly broad lines rather than sharp or ornate ones

  • You look most “at home” in comfortable, unfussy clothing (like the easy sweatshirt and relaxed pants)

  • Your overall vibe feels grounded, outdoorsy, and real rather than polished or dramatic

🌸 Secondary Essence: Classic

  • Balanced proportions and symmetry in your face

  • A calm, composed impression

  • You carry simple, clean pieces very well without needing excess detail

✨ Very subtle touch: Romantic (minor)

  • Gentle softness in your features and smile

  • Warmth and kindness that comes through emotionally rather than sensually


Your likely Kitchener blend:

Natural–Classic (with a hint of Romantic)

What this means for style:

  • Best fabrics: soft knits, cotton, linen, brushed textures

  • Shapes: relaxed but not sloppy, gently structured

  • Details: minimal, timeless, slightly cozy

  • Avoid: overly sharp tailoring, high drama, excessive frills, or ultra-glam looks

If you’d like, I can:

  • Compare Kitchener vs. Kibbe for you

  • Suggest specific outfit formulas for your essence

  • Help you find your best neckline, prints, or accessories

Just tell me what you want to explore next 😊

ChatGPT can make mistakes. Check important info.

Saturday, January 24, 2026

Cheating on your color palette

 

 It's difficult being a "spring color" when the seasons fight your palette. Finding September-October-November (Type 1/ Light Spring) colors is a bit crazy.

I found this "cheating on your palette" page that was really helpful for me.

There are parts of the color wheel that may not be an exact match, but sometimes "close enough is close enough"

ChatGPT - Am I a Bright Spring?

 

I asked ChatGPT if I'm a "Bright Spring" based on this photo

 


 

 

Short answer: you look very likely to be a Bright Spring — or right on the Bright Spring / True Spring border. 🌿✨

Here’s what I’m seeing in this photo:

Why Bright Spring fits

  • Clear, bright eyes with noticeable contrast — they really pop, which is classic Spring.

  • Warm undertone in your skin (peachy/golden rather than cool pink).

  • You’re wearing that fresh green beautifully. It doesn’t overpower you, and your face still looks lively and clear — a huge Spring tell.

  • High clarity overall: your features don’t look muted or dusty, which rules out Soft seasons.

Bright vs True Spring

  • You don’t look overwhelmed by brightness, which leans Bright Spring.

  • But you also don’t look ultra-high contrast (like neon-bright needed), so you might sit:

    • Bright Spring leaning True Spring, or

    • True Spring with good tolerance for Bright Spring colors

That overlap zone is very common and honestly the best place to be — more flexibility 🎨

Colors that should absolutely love you

  • Warm leaf green (like you’re wearing)

  • Coral, watermelon, warm rose

  • Turquoise, warm teal

  • Ivory (not stark white)

  • Gold metals (which you’re already rocking — and yes, they’re working)

Colors to be cautious with

  • Dusty pastels

  • Cool grays

  • Muted mauves

  • Black right next to your face (can drain warmth)

If you want, you can:

  • Show me a photo in black vs ivory, or

  • Tell me which colors people compliment you in most, or

  • Ask for a Bright Spring capsule palette (clothes + lipstick shades)

But based on this image alone? 🌸 Spring energy, bright and warm — absolutely yes.

Wednesday, January 7, 2026

Annual Angst over Key Words

 It's not a huge deal, but I typically keep these words in front of me for the year. 

I go with DYT "T1s3" so I get two Type 1 words and one type 3 word.

Here's the thing - I go through CT's word list and I can group them into (appearance) and (personality).

When I'm putting together an outfit, I can focus on the appearance words, but the personality words...it's good for those to be goals, as well as "sort of who I am already"

appearance:

  • bright
  • informal
  • spicy

personality

  • creative
  • active
  • self-confident

I also have a space for "other key words" from other systems

  • Elevated casual
    • 50% casual
    • 20% romantic
    • 20% edgy 

I'm also keeping in mind that when I thought I was s2, the fashion yin/yang was three yins and a yang.

that s3 puts that exactly the opposite, yang, yin, yang, yang.

More about that later. 

So the card:

Bright, Warm, Medium

Elevated Casual 

DYT: T1s3 - Bright, informal, spicy

yang, yin, yang, yang

I am: creative, active, self-confident 

 

Wednesday, January 8, 2025

DYT Lip Color Doppelgangers

 Merriam-Webster Dictionary says that a doppelganger is:


something or someone that strongly resembles another 

Dress Your Truth makeup colors tend to be spot-on for me, but I'm not always happy with the quality (wear time). I buy the DYT colors, then head to Ulta to find a color in my preferred brands that "strongly resembles) the DYT color.

DYT Alexa

 DYT Berry Jam 

DYT Cinnamon Frost

 DYT Classic Coral

 DYT Crystal Rose

DYT Dragonberry

 DYT Honeymoon

 DYT Icy Orchid

DYT Magical Mauve

DYT Nob Hill Red

  • MAC Powder Kiss in M.A.C. Smash

  • MAC 24 Hour in Gutsy

 DYT Orange Fizz

DYT Poodle Skirt

DYT Red Fantasy

 DYT Royal Flush

DYT Shopaholic






DYT You Wanna?





Saturday, January 4, 2025

Kibbe body type and what it means to me - Soft Classic

That's what the quiz gave me, I'll need to see where it goes. There are things that I really like - a corduroy skirt (not soft or visually light) and I have some "statement jewelry) that are not "clean, elegant, delicate, and sophisticated."

Key points from Gabrielle Arruda

  1. How soft is the fabric? (Soft, visually light) 
  2. Does the piece have soft tailoring or shaping? (Yes)
  3. Does the shape of the garment allow for soft waist emphasis?  (Or allow for a french tuck or tuck to enable waist emphasis?) (Yes)
  4. Does the garment have any overwhelming design elements that immediately draw your focus? (No) 
  5. Is it cut so that your curves are “accommodated”?  Look at the shape of the hips for a curved line, gathers, pleats, or anything that allows your hips to breathe.  Similarly, look through the torso to the waist for the same general curve shaping. 
  6. If it has a print, is the print subtle and elegant or over the top and bold?  (Generally, we are shooting for more subtle ones). 
  7. Is anything over the top, glitzy or flashy?  (No) 
  8. Do you like the garment itself?  ( NEVER just dress for Kibbe guidelines, you are the most important aspect of your style and David Kibbe doesn’t want to box you in)

 


Friday, January 3, 2025

Wrap up 2024

 

What I've learned (style-wise) this last year...
 
Stepping away from "Type 1" and "Bright Spring" was a good thing, overall. I still refer to those systems, but largely have leaned into descriptions, not labels.
 
  • Warm (undertones) - although looking at the "cool" color fans, I feel like I might have misjudged that)
  • Bright (bright clear chroma colors)
  • Medium (medium dark hair, eyes or skin)
 
Style wise, I "took the quiz" and ended up with "elevated casual"
 
That piece took me beyond color, and more mindful of lines - I have a couple of skirts in wonderful colors, but I look like a throw pillow!
 
Anyway, that's what learned...

Thursday, September 26, 2024

Boho Chic - or not?

 From "over 50, feeling 40" - https://over50feeling40.com/2024/06/2024-fashion-trends-boho-chic.html


Boho Chic is a thing. I have a difficult time describing the difference between Boho Chic and Hippie Chic (I prefer to think of myself as Hippie Chic - maybe so I can wear bell bottoms -er...flares- without guilt)


Is the name "Boho Chic" disrespectful? Maybe, but it takes a few steps to get there.

The French word bohemién was first used in France in the 1400's, to label the Roma people - they were believed to have come from Bohemia (a mistake) and were also referred to as gypies (which *IS* disrespectful.

https://www.projectcece.com/blog/459/is-boho-fashion-cultural-appropriation/


However..."Bohemian" seems to be more of a mindset than it is an ethnic label. One site I found said, "Boho style is a free-spirited aesthetic that mixes different cultures and artistic expressions into an eclectic style with an emphasis on organic elements and nature. When putting together your boho style space, mixing patterns, metals, woods, materials, animal hides and trinkets from your travels is highly encouraged."

 

So...Boho-Chic.


“a modern, sophisticated take on bohemian style that combines bold bohemian details with simple contemporary pieces.  It is characterized by its unconventional and free-spirited essence, while still being curated and self-expressive.  This style can be carefree, worldly and eclectic, blending old and new.”

 


 



For more reading on the history: https://www.britannica.com/topic/bohemianism

Tuesday, August 6, 2024

Leaning into Secondary 3

 I'm also writing a post on using a description, rather than a label. That's important here.

When I use a "label" - it's a kind of box. I *must* be...[fill in the blank].

Even the Spring palettes I have show me a selection of floral/stripe/whatever patterns that this label should utilize.

Using Descriptions leaves me in a different space.

The description doesn't tell me what I should be, it tells me what I already know.

I AM

  • casual
  • zesty
  • textured
  • confident
  • artsy
  • creative
  • and all the thing

Moving away from a s2 and leaning into s3 hasn't made a lot of difference, except I'm pairing more substantial jewelry that's been sitting in my drawer.

And it's hot here, so no jackets right now...but the jackets that I felt guilty for loving - the fabric/texture is in the "three range" so I can wear them with joy.

The sweaters that should have been a comfortable s3, but made me feel like a flannel-graph...they can stay in the back of the closet...

So for me, moving to a different secondary isn't so much about a change...but more about accepting what already describes me.

Wednesday, July 17, 2024

Narrowing Down the KeyWords

 Here's the list 

I want my "carry card" to focus on fashion, not personality, so I'll cross off those 

Today (7/17), I think

- vivid, zesty, textured

T1
  • friendly
  • expressive
  • playful
  • festive
  • fresh
  • creative
  • zestful
  • vivid
  • outgoing

T3

  • social 
  • assertive
  • informal
  • casual
  • no fuss
  • earthy
  • textured
  • social
  • zesty

Monday, July 15, 2024

The list of the things (style and color)

 

Personal Color - Bright, Warm, Medium...leaning into Light

DYT 1/3/2/4 (for Elements of Style)

Kibbe: Romantic

Kitchener: Natural Essence, relaxed, textured
 
Myers-Briggs (INFP-T, Sanguine, optimistic, confident, hopeful - turbulent)
 
 Your Color Style: Elevated Casual (50% Casual, 20% edgy, 20% romantic, 10% Hippie Chic
 

Style Words
(narrowed down)
T1
  • friendly
  • expressive
  • playful
  • festive
  • fresh
  • creative
  • zestful
  • vivid
  • outgoing

T3

  • social 
  • assertive
  • informal
  • casual
  • no fuss
  • earthy
  • textured
  • social

  •  

Type 1:
  • bright
  • creative
  • expressive
  • festive
  • fresh
  • friendly
  • impulsive
  • informal
  • light
  • outgoing
  • playful
  • trendy
  • vibrant
  • vivid
  • zestful


  • Type 3: 

    • assertive
      casual
      complex
      earthy
      edgy
      informal
      no fuss
      rustic
      social
      textured
      vivid
      zesty
Other system key words:

  • Hometown
    smart casual
    Artsy
    relaxed
    textured
     


 
(Don't know...Alchemy of Style...DKDC)

Saturday, July 13, 2024

"Best Red Lip"

 I don't remember which facebook group I got this idea from, but I think it might work

Take a closeup of your lips (done)

Open it with a photo editor (I use paint.net - it's free)

whatever method you use (I just eyeballed it) crop the photo down to the darkest part of your lip.

Ratchet the saturation to 100% - 

that's your best red.

Yikes???

Or...Wowser?

Or...MAC Lady Danger? (the lipstick is closer to the red in person than it is in the pic)


 

Yet another fashion test -

Our Fashion Garden -

The Ultimate Aesthetic Quiz: Awaken Your Aesthetic Spirit-

I got Boho with a splash of soft. 

mostly h: boho

You are attracted to freedom and individual expression. You have an adventurous spirit and a love for cultural diversity. You prefer comfortable, flowy clothes in a mix of colors and prints, reflecting your love for the carefree life and your desire to explore the world.

You love incorporating ethnic elements such as embroidery, fringes and artisanal fabrics into your clothing, creating a bohemian and exotic look.

Your way of life, tastes and values celebrate diversity, authenticity and connection with nature and the cultures of the world. You are always ready to embrace freedom and personal expression with your free bohemian aesthetic. Remain a free and radiant spirit on your journey through life!

mostly g: soft

Your aesthetic is serene and charming. You are attracted to the calm and delicacy of soft aesthetics, characterized by its comforting softness and its connection with nature. You prefer clothes in soft, pastel tones, with light and comfortable fabrics that flow gracefully around your figure.

You often incorporate natural elements such as flowers and soft prints into your clothing, creating an ethereal, slightly romantic and carefree look. Accessories like headbands, dainty necklaces and beaded bracelets add a charming finishing touch to your ensembles, bringing a sense of peace and harmony to your look.

Always maintain your connection to the beauty and serenity of the world around you. You are always ready to radiate calm and charm. Continue to be a gentle light in a busy world!

 

Thursday, July 11, 2024

For the Card I Carry

 I carry a card with me, with my "fashion sense information." 

It currently has:

  • DYT Type/secondary (1/2)
  • DYT Key words (Playful, vibrant, relaxed)
  • Your Color Style Color - Bright, Warm, Medium;  fashion - Elevated Casual - 50% casual, 20% edgy, 20% romantic, 10% Hippie Chic
  • Cladwell (Hometown, Smart Casual, Artsy)
  • Kibbe Body Shape (Romantic)
  • Myers-Briggs (INFP-T, Sanguine, optimistic, confident, hopeful

Might end up with:

  •  DYT: T1s3, Bright, Vibrant, Edgy
  • YCS: Bright, Warm, *Medium or Light* --- Elevated Casual (50% Casual, 20% edgy, 20% romantic, 10% Hippie Chic
  • Kitchener: Natural Essence, relaxed, textured
  • Myers-Briggs: INFP-T, optimistic, confident, hopeful
  • Cladwell: Hometown, Smart Casual, Artsy 

Myers-Briggs Introvert, iNtuition, Feeling, Perceiving - Turbulent


Your personality type is INFP:
Mediator
Mediators are poetic, kind, and altruistic people, always eager to help a good cause.)
 
Our Fashion Garden = Boho with a splash of Soft?



Wednesday, July 10, 2024

REthinking DYT (T1/s???)

 So...it was suggested that I rethink my secondary 2, and consider secondary type 3.

It fits, and also suits my preferences for fabric types and style lines.

Monday, March 25, 2024

"Coffee spiced stuff"

 Putting it here because I'll lose it otherwise.

  • 2 parts turmeric
  • 2 parts cinnamon
  • 1 part black pepper
  • 1 part ginger
  • 2 parts collagen peptides
  • 1 part baking soda.
put a tablespoon in hot coffee with a t. of butter and froth it up.

Compare and Contrast: DYT Yin/Yang lineup vs. Kitchener Essences

 

Compare and Contrast Time!

Trying to figure out “essence” in context of the systems I already know.  (I maybe just need somebody to tell me what essences I am and how to apply that information.)

I’ll start with DYT and the Yin/Yang lineup (publicly available)

DYT doesn’t have a T/s team that is pure yin or yang, so it isn’t a true lineup.

But if I look at (for example) my cluebomb of T1s2 (which does fit me), that’s about 2/3 down the “yangishness” list.

If I go about 2/3 of the way down the Kitchener essences, I end up at Ingenue (T1?) and Romantic (s2?) and maybe a touch of Angelic.

In the “your color style” quiz I ended up with “casual” and went with “elevated casual”

I know that for some, these won’t line up at all.

For some, they’ll make sense. 

I know, I’m trying to cheat by not putting a whole lot of time and brain power into figuring out my essences, if it’s right there on the list.  😉

DYT Yin/Yang lineup (in order of yangishness):

T3s1 = Yang, yang, yang, yin

T3s4 = Yang, yang, yin, yang

T1s3 = Yang, yin, yang, yang

T4s3 = yin, yang, yang, yang

T3s2 = yang, yang, yin, yin

T1S4 = Yang, yin, yin, jang

T4s1 = Yin, yang, yang, yin

T2s3 = Yin, yin, yang, yang

T1s2 = yang, yin, yin, yin

T4s2 = yin, yang, yin, yin

T2s1 – yin, yin, yang, yin

T2s4 – yin, yin, yin, yang

 

Kitchener's 7 style essences are (from yangishness to yinness):

Dramatic

Gamine

Natural

Classic

Romantic

Ingenue

Angelic